Price tag for the American dream: $130K a year WHAT IT COSTS TO LIVE THE AMERICAN DREAMHere’s the book by the Cornell professors Chasing the American Dream. And here’s USA Today’s list:
… An analysis by USA TODAY shows that living the American dream would cost the average family of four about $130,000 a year. Only 16 million U.S. households — around 1 in 8 — earned that much in 2013, according to the U.S. Census Bureau.
In an interview, co-author Thomas Hirschl, a professor at Cornell University, stressed that for the dozens of people they surveyed and interviewed, the American dream was not about becoming one of the 1%.
Median housing expenses: $17,062Now, obviously, this differs radically by region. And I can see a lot of ways to save versus this list (like not taking vacations, owning ancient cars, not attending professional sports events, not having cable, etc.), but I can also see expenses that perhaps aren’t on there. For example, is child care for a working mother included in the $4k education expense? A second car? How about saving to build a rainy day fund? Saving to be able to help your kids with a downpayment on a house? Saving for a daughter’s wedding?
Single nice car (4wd SUV): $11,039
Medical expenses (includes out of pocket): $9,144
Education expenses (2 kids): $4,000
Utilities (gas & electric, no water?): $1,956
Family Summer Vacation: $4,580
Cable/Satellite, Internet, cell phone: $3,100
College (2 kids): $5,000
401(k) Max: $17,500
Total taxes: $32,357
Leaving aside the immense regional differences in the cost of living, there really ought to be two lists based on the father’s earning power:
- one in which dad earns over $100k by himself, so mom stays home with the kids. Child care expenses are restricted to the occasional babysitter, the family can juggle things so they only need one car, they don’t eat out much, mom doesn’t need a professional wardrobe, and the tax bill is smaller. This can be a pretty nice lifestyle, but it’s restricted to families where dad can pull down over $100k personally. (Also, the corporate media doesn’t like this lifestyle since it involves less than maximal spending, so there is much agitation directed at women to be unhappy as homemakers. Of course, at the very high end of society, where husbands earn, say, mid-six figures, it’s quite common for wives not to work, but this doesn’t get talked about much. My son won a scholarship to a Pasadena-area prep school where the bake sales were run, superbly, by moms with Ivy League MBAs.)
- The second list in which dad’s earning potential tops out in the upper five figures, so mom has to contribute mid-five figures. This does wonders for the national GDP but not for quality of lifestyle. You probably need two cars, you eat out a lot, you buy more expensive groceries that require less cooking, you pay a lot for childcare, you spend more on clothes, you spend more on services, etc.